Karen Nyamu has recently expressed a fresh understanding regarding entitlement within relationships. In response to a comment on Facebook, she emphasized the impracticality of women feeling entitled to their partners. This comment arose within the context of the ongoing saga involving Samidoh and his wife, Edday Nderitu.
Edday, known for frequently using the hashtag “#Nothingbutprayers” on her social media accounts, has used this phrase to reflect the marital difficulties that have attracted public attention. The Facebook user made a connection between Edday’s situation and Karen’s association with the hashtag, asking Karen if she has also joined the “#Nothingbutprayers” team.
In her response, Karen Nyamu promptly dismissed any notions of entitlement over her romantic partner, Samidoh. She acknowledged the futility of trying to control or possess another person, stating that such entitlement is not within her purview. Karen went on to suggest that while she has completed her own journey, giving birth, Samidoh appears to be at the beginning of his own, indicating that he is free to pursue it with anyone he loves.
Karen’s statement represents a refreshing departure from the commonly observed narrative of possessiveness and control that often pervades discussions surrounding relationships. While it remains uncertain whether Karen’s newfound perspective is a direct result of her personal experiences or a broader realization, her words resonate with the growing movement towards equality and mutual respect in relationships.
As for Edday, she has traveled to America with her children months ago, and it is unclear whether she has plans to return. Edday has expressed her unwillingness to be part of a polygamous marriage, sharing her husband Samidoh. On the other hand, Karen Nyamu is open to the idea and has even expressed a wish for their prayers to be answered, envisioning a future where they can be one big family.
