In a recent TikTok video, Pastor Sue Munene, renowned for her ‘Twa Twa’ catchphrase, has brought attention to a critical aspect of parenting—the normalization of kissing children, particularly on their lips.
While this revelation has sparked controversy, it initiates a dialogue on the potential impact of such actions on a child’s understanding of boundaries and relationships.
Pastor Sue, in her video posted on December 3, strongly advises against parents touching their children’s private parts, lips included. She expresses concern about unintended consequences, suggesting that children exposed to such behavior at home might seek or accept similar gestures from others outside the family unit.
“I have seen parents who kiss their sons and daughters; it is not right. When you teach them, now they want to be kissed by any other man or woman who comes along their way. Another private part of the child is the breast,” she remarked.
Her emphasis on the potential psychological impact of such actions underscores the necessity for parents to be mindful of their physical interactions with their children. Pastor Sue highlights that girls have seven sensitive parts, including the thighs, while boys have six. “Whether you are a man or a girl, nobody should touch them. Remember that it is part of the organs that arouses a man or a woman, so no one should touch them,” she stressed.
Pastor Sue Munene extends her insights beyond physical boundaries, emphasizing the need for careful consideration when introducing children to matters of sexual education. She encourages parents to use thoughtful and relatable language, avoiding explicit terms.
In advocating for a collaborative approach to sexual education, Pastor Sue proposes a method where parents swap roles when discussing sensitive topics with their children. This strategy ensures that both parents actively contribute to a comprehensive understanding of the subject. The idea is for the mother to address the son, and the father to speak with the daughter, and vice versa.
This approach acknowledges the diversity of parental perspectives and aims to provide a well-rounded education for the child. Pastor Sue recognizes that different parents may have unique insights, and swapping roles allows each parent to share their valuable perspectives.
