Media personality Joyce Gituro offers a raw and relatable glimpse into the dating world through the lens of single parenthood. Reflecting on her journey post-separation, Gituro candidly recounts the emotional and practical hurdles she encountered when trying to navigate romantic relationships while caring for her child.
She admits to moments when exhaustion and frustration made her think, “I’d rather go back to my ex.” She became acutely aware of how differently society perceives and treats single mothers in dating contexts.
Gituro expresses deep admiration for men who embrace single mothers authentically—those who not only accept the mother but also respect and bond with her children without ulterior motives. “I respect men who marry single mothers and genuinely care for their kids—with no appetite for money,” she shares.
One relationship, which lasted two years, started with promise—led by a mature partner who seemed understanding. But over time, cracks appeared. Gituro noticed that her children’s well-being was often overlooked. “He didn’t even care if your kids are fine or not,” she reflects. “He didn’t make time for all of you—only for you. It made me wonder: if he were the father, would he behave the same?”
After ending that chapter, Gituro embarked on a deep journey of self-discovery and growth. She learned to value her own worth and set clear standards for any future partner—someone who respects her, her children, and the life they share.
Joyce Gituro’s story is a powerful reminder of resilience, self-awareness, and the importance of seeking love that uplifts the entire family.
