Akothee, often referred to as the President of Single Mothers and Chief Officer of Failed Marriages, has shared her perspective on the highly publicized drama involving Bonfire Adventures founders Simon Kabu and his estranged wife, Sarah Kabu.
In a detailed social media post, Akothee urged the couple to avoid airing their marital issues online and instead resolve them privately. She warned that the evidence they share on social platforms could eventually be used against them.
“Remember this: People don’t want evidence to set you free. Instead, all the evidence you share with us, the ‘online in-laws,’ will be used to bring you down. If that’s not enough, we’ll burn you, and if even burning isn’t enough, we’ll drag your children into it and take sides in your business,” she cautioned.
Akothee also pointed out the negative impact the ongoing feud could have on their family, particularly their children. She emphasized that many of those engaging with their story online might not have their best interests at heart.
“Whatever is happening now is not good for either of you, your family members, or especially your children. The people you are explaining yourselves to include some who have barely escaped the ‘bed of death’ called marriage. Don’t scrutinize or try to damage each other’s reputation. All the evidence you are sharing now will one day come back to bite you,” she added.
Addressing Simon directly, Akothee advised him to step away from the public spotlight, insisting the matter was too delicate for public consumption. She reflected on her own experiences to highlight the importance of restraint.
“I have been in these shoes before. My ex, who broke our union, convinced everyone I was the problem, yet deep down he knew the truth. I’m not saying you are wrong, but wait, just wait, Bro,” she wrote.
Akothee expressed her support for Sarah, stating she would stand by her unless proven guilty.
The Kabus have been trending after CCTV footage surfaced showing Sarah in a physical altercation with a woman alleged to be their house help. Sarah demanded answers from Simon, questioning the woman’s presence at their matrimonial home, especially since she had already moved out at the time.
Simon, on the other hand, maintained that the woman was merely a house help and denied any romantic involvement with her.
The unfolding drama continues to attract significant public attention, but Akothee’s advice serves as a poignant reminder of the dangers of oversharing personal issues on social media.
