Kenyan musician Kelvin Bahati has sparked debate after sharing his approach to balancing his marriage with Diana Marua and co-parenting with his baby mama, Yvette Obura.
Speaking during an interview with Sauti TV, Bahati revealed that he deliberately sets firm boundaries to protect his marriage.
“If you want to live well with your baby mama, respect your wife. You cannot thirst after your baby mama and expect your wife to be at peace. When you see your baby mama, see her like your sister. Anyone who has your child is a blessing, not your enemy. But it is men who are greedy.”
His remarks drew mixed reactions online. Some praised his maturity, while others doubted his sincerity, claiming his body language betrayed him.
The relationship between Diana and Yvette has had ups and downs in the past, but in recent months, the two women appear to have reconciled. They have been seen together at family gatherings and even shared photos online—gestures many fans celebrated as signs of peace and growth.
Bahati’s reflections highlight the challenges of co-parenting in blended families. His message is simple: peace comes from respect, boundaries, and putting children first.
