Renowned media personality Joyce Gituro has shared candid insights into her dating journey following her separation from her husband. She reflected on the challenges and unexpected realities of navigating the dating world as a single mother.
Gituro admitted that dating as a single parent comes with its own set of struggles. At one point, she even considered reconciling with her ex-husband, recognizing the unique difficulties of building new relationships while raising children.
“During that time, I tried dating. Let me tell you, I reached a point where I thought, ‘Waah, it might be better to go back to my ex-husband.’ There’s something about dating as a single mother—people treat you differently,” she revealed.
One of the experiences she recounted was a two-year relationship she entered with hope and optimism. Initially, the connection seemed promising, with her partner demonstrating maturity. However, over time, she began questioning the relationship’s direction.
“Dating as a single mother was shocking. I got into a relationship that lasted two years. At first, it was a great relationship with a mature person, but with time, I started asking myself, ‘Where are we headed?’” she shared.
Gituro also highlighted the lack of consideration for her children’s well-being, which ultimately became a red flag. She realized her partner prioritized her over her kids, which was unacceptable to her.
“This person didn’t care whether my children were okay or not. He didn’t want to spend time with me and my kids—just me. In fact, he’d rather give me money to buy them pizza and leave it at that. Then you start wondering, ‘If he were their father, would he behave this way?’” she explained.
Following the end of this relationship, Joyce embarked on a journey of self-reflection and personal growth. She acknowledged that the experience was a turning point, helping her mature and gain a deeper understanding of herself.
Today, Joyce exudes confidence and a strong sense of self-worth. She has embraced her value and established clear standards for any future relationships, ensuring her children’s well-being remains a top priority.
