Drama has erupted online after a Kenyan man boldly declared that his responsibility ends at helping women give birth, insisting that raising children is not his duty. His controversial statement, “Kazi yangu si kulea watoto,” loosely translated as “My job is not to raise children,” has sparked heated debate across social media platforms.
In a viral clip, the man is heard saying that his role is simply to “help ladies give birth,” adding that matters of raising the children are not part of his responsibilities. The remarks have drawn sharp criticism from many Kenyans, who accused him of promoting irresponsibility and neglect.
Parenthood, many argue, goes beyond conception. It involves emotional support, financial provision, guidance, and active participation in a child’s life. Critics say such statements reflect a mindset that shifts the burden of parenting entirely onto mothers, ignoring the shared responsibility that comes with bringing a child into the world.
Others, however, viewed the comments as an example of the growing conversations around modern relationships and accountability. Some questioned whether the man’s remarks were taken out of context, while others insisted that regardless of context, raising a child requires commitment from both parents.
The incident has reignited broader discussions about fatherhood in Kenya, with many calling for men to embrace active parenting roles. In recent years, advocacy groups and public figures have emphasized the importance of fathers being present in their children’s lives—not only as providers but also as caregivers and mentors.
As the debate continues, one message remains clear: parenting is a lifelong responsibility that demands more than words. It requires action, consistency, and shared effort to ensure children grow up in supportive and stable environments.
