Renowned motivational speaker Sam West passionately advocates the practice of celibacy, emphasizing the multitude of benefits it brings to those who embrace it.
Celibacy is defined as the conscious decision to abstain from engaging in sexual relationships for a specific period or until one enters into the sacred institution of marriage. Sam West, a former music manager and the ex-husband of the well-known singer Vivian, has undertaken this transformative journey for the past two years.
In a candid interview with Mpasho, he openly shared his experiences, stating, “I have chosen celibacy for two years now, and the results have been astonishing. The peace it brings into one’s life is immeasurable. Furthermore, it serves as a powerful tool for emotional healing, especially after a painful breakup.”
Sam West passionately believes that engaging in pre-marital intimacy can have a detrimental impact on one’s sense of self-worth, both in the eyes of oneself and in the eyes of God. He explains, “Partaking in sexual relations often leaves one feeling impure and can lead to the formation of deep emotional connections, often referred to as ‘soul ties.’ This can leave one’s mind in a constant state of turmoil, causing emotional distress that can be challenging to explain.”
He also draws from religious teachings, pointing out that the Bible highlights the spiritual mystery of intimacy, which sometimes results in unexplained occurrences and emotions in individuals.
Another influential figure in Kenya’s motivational speaking scene, MCee Robert Burale, caused quite a stir when he revealed that he had been practicing celibacy for nearly a decade, starting back in 2013. He humorously stated, “I’ve been celibate since 2013. And yes, I am a Mluhya,” underscoring the universality and relevance of celibacy across different cultural backgrounds. He believes in the significance of sexual intimacy within the confines of a committed marriage and aspires to eventually enter into this sacred institution.
In a similar vein, Justina Syokau, renowned for her hit song ‘Twendi Twendi,’ openly admitted to maintaining sexual purity for the past ten years. She acknowledges that, despite the external pressures, staying true to her vow of celibacy has not been an easy journey. To prevent any lapses, she keeps herself occupied, emphasizing, “I’ve been alone for a decade. It’s challenging when you have the shape and allure. However, I cope by staying busy. I fill my schedule with tasks and responsibilities, ensuring that I have no time to dwell on those desires.”
These compelling testimonies from individuals in the public eye shed light on the virtues of celibacy, a personal choice that can bring peace, emotional healing, and a sense of purity, while upholding deeply held spiritual and moral values.
