Nyako Pilot, a Kenyan TikToker currently residing in Germany, recently opened up about her tumultuous dating experiences, shedding light on her relationships both in Kenya and abroad.
During a live session on TikTok, Nyako Pilot candidly shared her struggles with men who, according to her, have consistently used and then discarded her without any sincere intentions of commitment or marriage. She expressed a belief that perhaps luck has not been on her side in relationships, leading to her being treated as a mere dumping ground by men. Furthermore, she suggested that her compassionate nature might have made her vulnerable to individuals seeking only sexual pleasure.
In her own words, Nyako Pilot lamented, “Siko lucky na wanaume. I always just get men who use me. Alafu wanajua nikona roho safi na ninapenda sex. Nikipata tu mtu ako skilled in bed na ajue I love it, that’s always my downfall,” revealing her struggle to find a genuine and lasting connection.
The TikToker, who is also a single mother, expressed her belief that she falls into the category of desperate women seeking love, often neglecting their mental and psychological well-being in the process. She took responsibility for offering her body to men who exploited her for their sexual desires, attributing this to her love for intimacy.
“Sasa nina fall kwa hiyo category ya the most used single women in the world. If I could manage to survive without getting intimate, it could be the best thing ever in my life, but shida ni mimi hujipeleka huko,” Nyako added, acknowledging her challenges in breaking free from this cycle.
In a previous TikTok Live session, Nyako Pilot disclosed that she had engaged in prostitution during her earlier years before transitioning to a new opportunity in Germany, which significantly altered her life. Despite her past, she offered advice to women, emphasizing the importance of fidelity in marriage for the well-being of both children and spouses.
