TikTok personality Kelvin Kinuthia has made it clear that he is displeased with fans who address him as a man when they meet him in public. Despite consistently showcasing a feminine appearance on social media through his choice of attire and makeup, Kinuthia has expressed frustration with individuals who refer to him using male-oriented terms like ‘bro.’
In a recent video, Kinuthia, a male content creator renowned for his feminine fashion and cosmetics, opened up about the effort he invests in presenting himself as a woman. He lamented that despite his intentional feminine presentation, some people continue to disregard this and use masculine terms, particularly ‘bro,’ which he finds disrespectful and irritating.
Kinuthia emphasized his preference for being addressed as ‘baby girl’ and urged those who cannot respect this to refrain from greeting him altogether. His request reflects his desire for acknowledgment and respect for his chosen feminine identity.
In his impassioned statement, Kinuthia questioned the appropriateness of such casual and masculine greetings, especially given the effort he puts into his appearance. He shared instances where he has been approached in public spaces like malls and supermarkets by individuals who greet him with ‘what’s up bro?’—a form of address that dismisses his feminine presentation.
He also took issue with the act of shoulder-bumping, a greeting commonly associated with male camaraderie. While he did not explicitly discuss his stance on gender identity, Kinuthia made it clear that he finds such interactions unsuitable. Instead, he encouraged his audience to use greetings like ‘baby girl’ and suggested alternatives such as handshakes or hugs, which he feels align better with his preferred mode of presentation.
