Sencha12, a popular TikToker, has advocated for women to stand by their partners regardless of their financial situation. In a widely circulated video, this Kenyan influencer urged women not to judge their men or let external opinions damage their relationships.
In the viral video, Sencha12 advised women not to be swayed by societal expectations, emphasizing the importance of appreciating small gestures. She discouraged the habit of belittling a man for not showering his partner with expensive gifts or substantial financial contributions, urging women to value even the smallest efforts.
“Do not allow others to label your man as weak just because he hasn’t bought you extravagant gifts or deposited a large sum in your M-Pesa account. Appreciate the little things, like a KSh 1,000, because not everyone is fortunate enough to receive even that. Every relationship is unique, and comparisons can be detrimental,” she emphasized.
Sencha12 emphasized the significance of enduring the challenging phases of a relationship, asserting that the difficulties will yield positive outcomes. She highlighted that men are motivated to work harder when they have a family to support, urging women not to let external opinions jeopardize their relationships.
The TikToker pointed out the dangers of comparing relationships with others, noting that such comparisons often lead to discouragement. According to Sencha12, the key to successful relationships lies in mutual support and collaboration to overcome challenges.
The video sparked widespread discussions on social media, with various netizens expressing their diverse opinions. Beka Watkins shared a personal experience regretting that his ex-partner didn’t hear such advice when he was facing financial struggles. On the other hand, alexisreignsringo expressed a desire for a partner who would appreciate small efforts, and tom.sani commended Sencha12 for her wisdom and beauty.
Achieng nyar coachezz shared that her partner had taught her valuable lessons, reinforcing Sencha12’s message. HELLEN supported the idea of not letting external voices ruin relationships, emphasizing the importance of sticking by a hardworking partner. The video prompted a mix of reactions, illustrating the varying perspectives on the topic of appreciating partners despite financial constraints.