Social commentator Bhakita Esther has sparked conversations after criticizing Kenyan men for failing to defend women targeted by foreign men online. Speaking about a recent case involving a Russian man allegedly exploiting Kenyan women, Esther argued that men in Kenya often neglect their duty to protect their own, leaving women vulnerable to abuse and manipulation.
Esther highlighted that the Russian man allegedly met multiple young women through dating platforms, presenting himself as a gentleman, but secretly recorded and shared intimate interactions without consent. She condemned the tendency among some Kenyans to blame the victims, calling the women derogatory names, rather than holding the perpetrator accountable.
The statement underscores the broader risks women face in online relationships, particularly with foreigners who may exploit trust for personal gain. Esther’s remarks also reflect ongoing discussions about gender dynamics in Kenya, emphasizing the need for men to actively protect women and for society to prioritize consent, respect, and accountability in all relationships.
This incident serves as a cautionary tale for young people navigating digital dating spaces, highlighting the importance of vigilance, education, and communal support to prevent exploitation.
