Pastor Leah Ndabila of House of Hope Ministries has warned young men against seeking relationships with older, wealthy women for quick financial gains. She expressed concern that many young men are avoiding hard work and opting instead for being supported by older women, preferring this to taking on jobs or starting businesses.
According to the pastor, young men are choosing not to engage in physical labor, such as working at construction sites, and are instead looking for ways to be “taken care of” by older women.
Pastor Leah emphasized the importance of earning a living through honest and hard work. She criticized the notion that young men should rely on older women for financial stability, urging them to reject such shortcuts to wealth. She also warned against the consequences of such choices, advising young men to avoid relationships that could bring them curses rather than blessings. She cautioned that relying on older women for support is not only harmful to their future but also dishonoring to their mothers, who would feel pain upon discovering such relationships.
Additionally, Pastor Leah called out older women who engage in relationships with younger men, arguing that they are damaging the future generation by setting bad examples. She encouraged these women to treat young men as their own children instead of exploiting them for their own benefit, reminding them that this behavior ultimately harms the younger generation’s potential.
