“A friend connected me to his childhood friend, actually his best man at his wedding! My brother had gone met him and had lunch with him in Nairobi and gave me his opinion about him.. mostly caution 
!! So I was very careful dealing with him! This guy had been divorced and his friend felt I could be happy with him.
That was early this year 2024. So we started talking and time for my summer vacation and business trip came and I flew to kanairo. Booked ole sereni and made sure I was in charge of my security! I booked my brother a room in the same hotel too and I strictly told the guy he wasn’t going to sleep there with me since it was our first time meeting and he was okay.
My flight landed at 4pm Jkia and my brother was there waiting for me.
We went checked in. So all this time the guy was inside olesereni waiting for me to arrive but when he saw me he kinda went and hid in the toilet (I kid you not)!
Then after like one hour I had freshened up and changed and came down to get dinner that’s when he came carrying red roses 
and Masai blanket! I hugged him and we sat and had a great conversation! No issues! My friend who introduced us also came and we had drinks and dinner! All the 4 of us! He is a heavy drinker too (big deal breaker for me) When the bill came I noticed the guy going to receive a call meaning he couldn’t pay it’s was like $250.00. My brother paid the bill through the phone payment System they use in Kenya. A very efficient system!!
I had brought him a few gifts shirts and a refurbished phone so I gave him his gifts. He went home and my other friend too went home. He had a Kenya school of law exam the next day so he actually wore one of the shirts I brought him and he told me he got lots of compliments about the beautiful white shirt.
Day 2 we didn’t meet until at night over dinner then each went their way.. Day 3 was when I noticed the disaster I was dealing with! The man was so broke he didn’t have airtime on his phone and he was literally begging money from his friends, i happened to overhear him on phone talking to his friends asking for money.. I just asked him “are you okay financially?” He said no I’m waiting for my salary and it’s being delayed. I asked him so I told you about my coming 4 months ago how come you didn’t put some money aside for your own expenses like gas airtime etc! He kept quiet and that’s when I realized i was dealing with a burden not a man! How could I have been duped this much? An aspiring criminal lawyer and a man who reports to the office of the president could be like this? Isitoshe his mannerisms were wanting… I was to go to his house but on day 3 I WAS COMPLETELY DONE!! Yes I invited him to my homecoming party but i couldn’t wait for him to just disappear and after that i never saw him again!! Huyu ndiye i told yu alikuwa ameweka keki or bread kwa mfuko then ikaanza kumwagika hapo ole sereni kwa floor! Eish I was in shock! Anyways.. My stay in Kenya was fun and i enjoyed myself to the fullest!!
IF I CONTINUED ENCOURAGING OR FORCING THAT DOOMED RELATIONSHIP JAMENI SI MNGENIKUTA MAYBE NIMEISHIA HUKO KWAKE NA VILE WOMEN ARE BEING CHINJWAD HUKO
NIMECHOKA!!
Single life for me aki!!!!”
