Relationships are complex, and maintaining a healthy, lasting partnership takes effort from both sides. Many people immediately blame their partners when infidelity occurs, feeling hurt, angry, or betrayed. While these emotions are natural, it is important to pause and consider whether certain behaviors or neglect from one partner may have contributed to the situation. Understanding this does not excuse cheating, but it can provide insight into how relationships sometimes drift apart.
John, a married man living in Kisumu, shared his experience with me. He had always considered himself a loyal and loving husband, but over the past year, he noticed growing distance between him and his wife. She became quiet, spent more time away from home, and seemed emotionally disconnected. When John found out she had been unfaithful, his initial reaction was shock and anger. Yet, as he reflected on their relationship, he realized that he had unknowingly created a gap between them.TO READ MORE,TAP HERE
