Cheating or infidelity can severely strain a relationship. An affair can be devastating; one feels
betrayed, confused, and even lonely. Some couples will work to fix the broken relationship, but
to some, the affair ends it. Cheating affects both parties; the uninvolved partner, involved in
other cases the same extends to children.
Ayub Ojwang a 40-year-old man who had been in marriage for 12 years shared a strange an
ordinary way which he discovered his wife was indeed cheating on him. He said that each time
they were together as a family for dinner, their children would bring in a conversation on how
their good uncle would spoil them with a lot of gifts.
“It was the third time I heard of this good uncle. I wondered why my wife always disrupted when
they tried to explain how this uncle bought them gifts. She would bring in a different story to
completely confuse them,” Ayub said.
It really affected him. He was always restless. Most of the times he spent thinking how his wife
was cheating in him despite his efforts to ensure they were in a successful marriage built upon
loyalty and faithfulness.
“After I discovered the kind of woman I had, I was no longer the same. Our love to each other
was no more. I only talked to our two children. We turned to living like brother and sister from
wife and husband. I felt there was no need of being in marriage with someone who had guts to
cheat on me,” He added.
The problem was he never confronted her. He chose to remain silent with this burning issue.
Through his brother, he got to learn of Dr Mugwenu, a herbal man well known in solving variety
of marriage problems through his extraordinary spells. He met Dr Mugwenu who did a
diagnosis to his situation and clearly confirmed that indeed the ‘uncle’ Ayub’s children kept
talking about was indeed a man she cheated on him with. Marriage loyalty spells were cast to
Ayub said his wife admitted to have cheated on him. They forgave each other. The spells had a
hand in their stable relationship. It brought love and affection just like things were during their
“Many may not notice this, but infidelity also affects the partner who cheats. If the affair has
lasted long without the knowledge of the other partner, the impact can be drastic. The
emotional, physical, and mental effects of such affairs can be severe. One could be depressed
and anxious, mainly due to the guilt that overtakes their conscience. In other cases, one would
feel gauged, helpless, and trapped in the situation. This means that it gets even more
challenging close to impossible to change it,” Dr Mugwenu says.
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