In the heart of Kibra, Nairobi’s largest informal settlement, a quiet transformation is taking place. While much focus has been placed on teenage mothers, little attention has been given to teenage fathers—young men who are now stepping up to raise their children on their own.
Unlike the common narrative, some teen dads in Kibra are taking full responsibility for their children. These young men, some as young as 17, are navigating the difficult journey of parenthood with minimal support. They face countless challenges, including poverty, stigma, and lack of guidance, yet they remain determined to give their children a better future.
Many of these teen fathers dropped out of school after discovering they had fathered a child. With few job opportunities and little formal education, they resort to odd jobs, such as washing cars, selling snacks, or working in construction to make ends meet. Despite these hurdles, they remain present in their children’s lives, something rarely highlighted in mainstream discussions.
“I didn’t run away from my responsibilities,” says Brian*, an 18-year-old father. “I chose to raise my child because I know what it feels like to grow up without a dad.”
Local community groups and NGOs in Kibra have begun recognizing these efforts. Some are now offering parenting classes and small business training to help these young fathers create sustainable livelihoods.
Still, the issue of teenage pregnancies and early parenthood remains a big challenge in Kenya, especially in low-income areas. According to recent data, Kenya continues to report high rates of teenage pregnancies, with urban slums being the most affected due to lack of access to information, limited resources, and social pressures.
Efforts to reduce teenage pregnancies must therefore include support for both boys and girls. Educating young people on reproductive health, encouraging open conversations, and creating safe spaces for mentorship can go a long way in shaping better futures.
The story of Kibra’s teen fathers is a reminder that with the right support, even the most vulnerable young people can rise to meet life’s toughest responsibilities.
