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Samidoh: I couldn’t stay in Kibe’s house in US because he is being hosted by sugar mummy

As a young Kenyan musician, I was excited to be offered the opportunity to tour the United States and perform at various venues. However, my excitement quickly turned to disappointment when I found out that I would not be able to stay with my friend Kibe, who was also on tour in the US.

The reason for this was that Kibe had been invited to stay with a wealthy older woman, who was known as his “sugar mummy”. This term refers to a woman who provides financial support and gifts in exchange for the company and affection of a younger man.

While I understood the financial benefits of such a arrangement, I was uncomfortable with the idea of staying with someone who was essentially paying for Kibe’s companionship. It felt like a transactional relationship, and I did not want to be a part of it.

Additionally, I was concerned about the potential consequences of staying with a sugar mummy. I was worried that she might expect more from me than just friendship, and that I could potentially be put in an awkward or even dangerous situation.

In the end, I decided to decline Kibe’s invitation and find alternative accommodation for my stay in the US. While it may have been more convenient to stay with him, I felt that it was important to prioritize my own safety and comfort over the potential financial benefits.

Overall, I believe that the concept of sugar mummies is problematic and objectifies both men and women. While I understand that some people may choose to enter into such arrangements, I personally could not stay in a situation where I felt uncomfortable and potentially unsafe.