Sometimes, friends betray us because of their own insecurities, jealousy, or desire for revenge. In some cases, these so-called friends may not truly have our best interests at heart. While it is possible to mend some friendships after a betrayal, others may need to be let go.
One person who knows this all too well is Risper Faith. Last year, she treated a friend to a day out that cost her 24,000 shillings. However, the friend ended up betraying her, leaving Risper feeling as though she had experienced a type of death.
In a strongly worded Instagram post, Risper expressed her feelings about the betrayal, indicating that nothing hurts more than being betrayed by someone you thought was close to you. She also acknowledged that while she may sound cynical, she is no longer keeping people as friends.
Fans of Risper shared their own stories of friendship breakups and offered words of comfort. Some suggested that women are often each other’s worst enemies, while others spoke of hosting friends who turned out to be ungrateful freeloaders.
Regardless of the reasons behind a friend’s betrayal, the pain of it can be overwhelming. For Risper, the loss of a friend was like losing a part of herself. While it is possible to move on from a betrayal and rebuild trust, some friendships may be beyond repair. In the end, it is up to each individual to decide what is best for them and their emotional well-being.
